His 4 Secret Dating Insecuritieshttp://lifestyle.msn.com/relationships/articlecosmomatch.aspx?cp-documentid=9983284>1=32023
Heís one of many. If heís chasing you, he knows heís not alone. And because men are so competitive, that thought drives him nuts. One tip: Donít tell him youíre all his, but put his mind at ease by asking questions about his life.
You might still reject him. During those first few dates, a guy is watching like a hawk for clues that youíre not going to give him the slip. So if you want to reassure him that youíre interested enough to stick around (at least for now!), offer up small gestures, like extended eye contact or a gentle touch of his hand when youíre talking.
He doesnít measure up...to you. Guys are being outpaced by women in college and on the job, so itís important for a dude to prove heís as accomplished as you are. But heíll only boast if he likes you, so donít squash his ego like a bug.
Heís taking it too slow. Fact is, heís torn: He knows he should take it slow, but he doesnít want you to think heís a wuss either. So if you want to green-light the physical side of the relationship, encourage him...youíll think of something.